Act

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Registered: 01-16-2006
Act
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Tue, 01-17-2006 - 11:19am

Hi there,

I'm so confused of how to act around him (read post "I'm so Confused") I want to act like I'm ok with it, I've resigned myself to the fact that its over... but its hard not to be mean and angry. I've stopped crying in front of him and telling him my feelings. Its so hard in this situation. I'm trying to play it cool. Does anyone have any thoughts on this? Thanks

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Registered: 07-16-2003
In reply to: hannabananers
Tue, 01-17-2006 - 11:49am

I would probably strive for a polite reserve. It takes a lot of meditation, prayer, and deep breathing exercises. Find words that are of inspiration to you and repeat them in your head. One of my favorites:

"I can be changed by what happens to me, but I refuse to be reduced by it" (Maya Angelou)