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| Fri, 02-23-2007 - 6:56pm |
We broke up last Saturday. Two year long relationship. I thought we were gettting married. He told me we would be engaged by the end of the summer. We picked out a ring. I was "it". Last Saturday out of no where he told me that he wanted to be alone. He said that he wants to just have to think about himself again. The conversation lasted about 30 minutes and I got my stuff and left. We spoke once later that afternoon and he said that he was clear with me that he wants to be alone and that he is not sure if we will work this out. He gave minimal clues about this the weeks prior to the breakup. I got 4 dozen roses on Valentines. He is about to be 27 and he says we wants to take a finacial risk before he gets married. Everyone is shocked- including myself. The first 48 hours were by far the worst and now I am just left very unsure of the future. We haven't spoken since Saturday afternoon. Will he call? Is this going to work out? Does he miss me as much as I miss him? I need advice that isn't from someone who is equally as shocked as me. Overall we were happy.

Hi brokenrose and welcome to the board.
Wow, how does that rug feel out from under you?
Conversely to cl-itwinflame, I'm not surprised he did this because he wants to "take a financial risk" before getting married.