advice needed

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Registered: 04-28-2007
advice needed
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Wed, 07-18-2007 - 3:22pm
My ex of 4 months (after 30 years together) is going on Vacation with his new girl friend. The new friend arrived on the scene soon after we seperated. I had hoped that the seperation would be just that and there would be a reconciliation at some point if we got help, but...
Today he called and wants to borrow luggage and the camera. I do not feel comfortable lending this stuff that also belongs to me to him so he can go off to
Morocco for 20 days and enjoy himself with someone else.I also feel by him doing this he is rubbing his whole "happy relationship" in my face. ?????? What do you think???
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Registered: 06-06-2007
In reply to: sally882007
Wed, 07-18-2007 - 3:39pm
Tell him to get his own luggage and camera. Give me a break. I wouldn't let him use one piece of mine. I may sound like a big B but I don't think so. If he has money to go to Morroco for 20 days he can go to Walmart and buy a set of luggage. And I wouldn't feel one BIT bad by telling him that.
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Registered: 07-14-2007
In reply to: sally882007
Wed, 07-18-2007 - 4:52pm

He's rubbing it in.

If I were you, I'd tell him "Can't. I'm using it" and let him wonder.

But then I'm catty.

- There comes a point in your life when you realize who matters, who never did, who won't anymore, and who always will. So don't worry about people from your
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Registered: 06-22-2006
In reply to: sally882007
Wed, 07-18-2007 - 5:39pm

This is not the time to be nice, this is the time to be strong.


Simple answer is, "No you cannot use my luggage or my camera to go on your vacation and how would you even have the gall to ask me that."


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