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| Wed, 02-21-2007 - 10:07am |
My ex of two years and I broke up because I accepted a job offer in another state and he wants to stay here and focus on his own career. We decided not to do the long distance thing, because we thought it would be too hard. That was about two months ago-I asked him not to contact me and he hasn't. I don't expect to hear from him. This is really hard, because otherwise we were really happy and I know we both still love eachother. Maybe just not enough? Maybe we were too hasty about this breakup- this new job doesn't start for another year, but we both figured it would be harder to stay together when we already know it has to end... Has anyone ever been through something like this before? How do you get over someone when you both still love eachother and there really wasn't anything wrong with your relationship?
On a side note, I need to stop obsessively checking his email every day. It's so stupid, and I can't believe I'm doing it. I don't know what I'm looking for- evidence that he's met someone else and has moved on and it's really over? Eventually that's going to happen and when it does, it's going to hurt to see that. So I need to stop checking it like a crazy person! I thought about emailing him and asking him to change his password, but then he would know what I've been doing, and I really don't want him thinking that I'm a crazy stalker!! Especially since we haven't spoken even once since the breakup.
Any advice? Thanks!!
| Wed, 02-21-2007 - 1:12pm |
