After 15 months

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Registered: 04-14-2006
After 15 months
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Mon, 03-17-2008 - 5:23pm

I broke up with my ex 15 months ago. Neither of us wanted to break up, it was circumstances beyond our control. He texted me last week, I had not heard form him in a year. We talked for 3 hours. He called and invited me out for a drink tomorrow. I agreed. Part of me wants to see him to know that I am over him, part of me wants him back. We have both changed our circumstances.


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Registered: 11-19-2007
In reply to: bosoxlady
Mon, 03-17-2008 - 5:28pm
Best of luck.
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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: bosoxlady
Mon, 03-17-2008 - 6:08pm
Let us know how it goes....I'll be thinking of you.




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Registered: 04-14-2006
In reply to: bosoxlady
Tue, 03-18-2008 - 1:16am

I am a little nervous. Our 3 hour conversation was very good and we said a lot of things that we should have said 15 months ago.


I just recently began dating again, just casually and met a great guy on vacation and got my groove back. I am feeling confident about seeing him again.


It really was a case of right person, wrong time. I have to do this because I vowed that I would never have anymore "what-ifs" in my life.


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Registered: 04-14-2006
In reply to: bosoxlady
Wed, 03-19-2008 - 10:19am
Can't select an appropriate emoticon. We meet for a drink. We hugged briefly and talked for about an hour. He walked me to my car and we kissed and hugged goodbye and agreed to meet again next week. The hour was spend on catching up. Neither mentioned the past. I thought I would cry so something but I didn't I feel at peace. Have no idea what this means.
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Registered: 04-14-2006
In reply to: bosoxlady
Thu, 03-27-2008 - 11:54pm
Well, we have been talking every night. Meet for a nice dinner tonight kissed some more. We have decided to take things SLOWLY and attempt it again.
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Registered: 08-22-2003
In reply to: bosoxlady
Fri, 03-28-2008 - 11:57am

BoSox,


Congrats.... Who knows if it will work out , but the fact you have a chance a year later is great.

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Registered: 04-14-2006
In reply to: bosoxlady
Fri, 03-28-2008 - 10:34pm

Both of us were in the middle of divorces, but now they are both final. Also we had an unplanned pregnancy that ended. It was so hard and I ended things. We have gone though alot together.