After Two Years Its Over 4 Another Girl

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Registered: 10-19-2006
After Two Years Its Over 4 Another Girl
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Mon, 11-06-2006 - 11:26pm
Well after two years together I am devastate that he left me for a trashy girl that isnt really interested and wants a piece of ass. I never thought that the guy that I loved would hurt me as he did .. Well I don't know what to do. I cant eat sleep or do anything but think about this. Well any advice I need some that will help me move on..
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Registered: 03-09-2005
Tue, 11-07-2006 - 9:12am
I'm sorry to hear about what has happened. It hurts and there isn't much you can do except for feel your feelings and hold on to your close friends. Try not to make any quick decisions now, like getting even, etc... Know that time heals, as much as we all hate to hear this one! It's better you find out now, that when you're married to him with a couple of kids!
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Registered: 10-19-2006
Tue, 11-07-2006 - 9:31am
Yea thanks for that but you know what gets me is that this girl is a whore and known for that. She likes to steal other girls boyfriends and I cant believe that he fell for it after I told while we were together but thanks for the advice. I just wish that the pain and sickness would go away. When will it go away. I cant take it anymore.
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Registered: 08-04-2003
Tue, 11-07-2006 - 12:32pm

She couldn't steal if he wasn't interested. You need to be more angry with him. He was the one in a relationship with you.

Start journal writing. Vent on paper. Write them both hate letters, vent away, do NOT send them, burn them. Scream in a pillow. Make a list of things you enjoy and start doing them. It's nearly the holiday season. Help someone in need. Doing for others that are in a worse situation than us, really does help. Pamper yourself. Take care of you.


Carrie

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Registered: 10-19-2006
Tue, 11-07-2006 - 12:42pm
Thanks I will try that maybe it will help and I appreciate that. It means alot that there are others out there that have advice and are feeling the same way thank you
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Registered: 11-03-2006
Tue, 11-07-2006 - 6:02pm

I'm so sorry to hear this....well my first love did that to me also. it hurt so bad...i'm just like you cant eat or sleep...but i show it to him that i will never beg him to come back for me...actually the reason we split is bcuz he push me and i end the relationship...so after few months i find out his dating this "B"...

i cried it all out with my friends...i even remember cuz i used to work as a telemarketer so every time i make sales call...i used to cry to my customer...and they end up buying...LOL

but believe it or not that girl even call me and telling me BAD STAFF ABOUT MY EX...that his beating her...i dont know if it is true or she just making up story for me not to come back with him...cuz she knows thats my reason thats why i end my relationship with that guy....so for some reason everytime his not with her...she calling me and looking for him...actually they end up being married.. but up to now they both have something against me...

so i'm just like everyone here that i used to think i cant find other man better than him...well i did i fall inlove again but the thing is my heart never learn...i always fall in a wrong person...hehehe LOL

so i hope your getting my point...as long that we are alive THERE'S HOPE!!!