again..

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Registered: 02-01-2005
again..
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Fri, 10-07-2005 - 4:26am

I was one more heartbreak away from having 30 cats. this is it, i'm done with men. it's just not worth it.

a couple of months ago I met B. he was perfect for me. and he really seemed so into me I started to trust him and to really believe that we have a future. the things he said, the way he acted...was really difficult not to believe in this relationship. he wascommitted. then.. he started getting more and more busy..but was still around, assuring me that he's interested, that he has some problems with his business, that i only need to be a bit patient. and guess what, last night got an email saying that he misses me, wants to take this relationship further..but the times are just so busy that i shouldn't rely on our relationship and we need to cool it for now.

yeah, right. have you ever heard of some couple who took a break cause one of them was too busy and who picked it up later and lived happily ever after? no, me neither. nobody can ever be too busy to get what they want! can't men just say it? that sorry, i'm not interested any more, have a nice life. sure he promised to keep in touch and that we talk soon but i can bet anything on it that i'll never hear from him again.

the timing was nice too. It's my birthday today. really "happy" one.

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Registered: 09-22-2005
In reply to: ulrika07
Fri, 10-07-2005 - 12:21pm

Ulrika,


I'm sorry to hear about what happened... and that timing really stinks.

Nikki