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| Sun, 09-19-2004 - 6:08pm |
Ugh...help?! The ex sent me a text message today and I'm having a weak moment right now...I really want to respond :( All it said was "shouts from Gary!" I don't know why he still contacts me...

Of course, I think it will be a huge mistake, but obviously, it's going to take a lot to get him out of your system once and for all, and maybe the only way that can happen is by allowing yourself to be open and vulnerable to the pain you're sure to experience by renewing contact with him.
That will give him the chance to show you even more of his true colors and to reaffirm, as we discussed last week, that he's no good for you. Maybe knowing with your head that he's no good for you isn't good enough. Perhaps you need to experience the pain of all that is "currently unknown" to you with your heart, and THEN you will know for sure.
So go ahead and give in to the urge to respond so you can finally learn once and for all that you need to leave him alone and that you're truly better off without him. I believe more pain lies ahead for you in reaching out to him, but until you truly believe it for yourself, you won't be at peace.
Good luck and let me know how it all goes.
Heymum