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Almost over him!
| Thu, 01-06-2005 - 2:20pm |
I broke with a guy about six weeks ago and I'm trying real hard to get over him. He is hispanic and did not speak a lot of english so there were times when communication was an issue,but one that I was willing to overcome by seeing about signing up for spanish classes.The real problem those was me. I had been married for almost 20 yrs to a very abusive,controlling man who committed suicide 7yrs ago.I didn't start dating again until I met this gentleman. He treated me like a queen,always doing nice things for me.Holding open doors,bringing me gifts-just because.I was just to clingy wanting to be with him 24-7 because he was so nice.(after abuse it was nice to be cared about) He was very mysterious though. Only came over on certain days and stayed at the same hours. I asked him if there was someone else,and he said no that he had to do a lot for his family. I would asked him questions about little things and he would not always answer me. At first I thought it was the lanuage thing but now I'm not sure,I think he liked keeping secrets. After a couple of days of him pretty much ignoring anything I said to him when he came over.I got made and told him that if he wanted to continue to avoid me he could just go home. He got up and left. On Mon. when I seen him at the bus stop(we took the same bus to get to work-different places)He told me that he wanted to just be friends that he 's been single to long and we need to step back away from each other for awhile. I was crushed ,but told him ok. I haven't seen or heard from him since,I really miss him,but know I need to move on it's just so hard.Can anyone give me advise on how to move on .He's only the second guy I've ever been with in my life.(My husband was my highschool sweetheart)so didn't date much,and not sure about it now.
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| Sat, 01-08-2005 - 5:43pm |
I'm so sorry to hear about your break-up...I know it's tough esp after the things you endured in your previous relationship.
