alone again - he says he's scared
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alone again - he says he's scared
| Sun, 01-14-2007 - 11:54am |
my boyfriend broke up with me on wednesday. he says he loves me and he's had the best time of his life with me, but he's having doubts and he's not ready to commit to anybody right now. it came out of nowhere. i love him and i miss him so much. we were nothing but happy. this was his first relationship. i want him back so bad. i want to call him. i can't stop looking at his myspace. i want to drive by his work and. .. i dont know. i'm being pathetic but i'm hurting so much. what should i do?

HS~
Slow down a bit. How long have you been dating? I am having a hard time giving my ex his 'space', but I think it would be good for you to try that with him. We can't let our every thought and action hinge upon what someone else says or does or doesn't say/do (I am saying that to myself more than you ;) )
Do you have any friends you can spend time with for some distraction and distance?
Keep us posted on what happens next.
You will get through whatever is going on, we all do :)
Hugs
L