Alone and confused
Find a Conversation
| Sat, 06-30-2007 - 5:13pm |
Hi,
I met this great guy, someone who I thought would be my forever and led me to believe so until 2 weeks ago when he suddenly and out of no where told me he didn't know how he felt. Now I am sitting here feeling alone and confused by how quickly this could have happened. I feel so up and down right now. The first week is the hardest, but now I do feel better. It is just that every now and then I start crying again out of hurt and anger. I moved to where I am living less than a year ago and don't have many friends since he was quite frankly my social life (big mistake on my part I know). The friends I do have are also friends with him so it is hard to be around them because it reminds me of him. He still wants to get together so we can talk because he said he needs "closure". I don't want to be angry so I can move on with my life. Any advice?

Keep as busy as you can. Volunteer at a social services agency - what a great way to meet new people! Get out walking. Adopt a pet. Go to church. Put in extra hours at work. Get a second job. Spend time visiting shut-ins at a nearby nursing home. Go shopping to a mall that is out of town. That's my advice, just keep yourself busy so you don't have time to feel alone and confused.
And who knows, maybe you'll meet someone new!!!
Welcome to the board katydid,
I have a few questions:
1) how long have you been seeing each other?
2) who broke up with who?
He wants to talk to get closure, if he broke up with you, too bad.