always happens

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Registered: 12-09-2007
always happens
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Fri, 02-01-2008 - 1:19pm

hey i posted another one, but i couldnt find it. my boyfriend are on a break right now, it started last weekend. hes been calling everyday (very unlike him) ive barely called him, only when its important. he called yesterday and i asked when i could pick up my money from him, he said tomorrow night (tonight) after i went out with my brother, i could get it. when he called today he was acting kinda weird, but i thought he was just in a weird mood. i asked what he was doing tonight, he said staying in cause of the weather. i asked if it was still ok if i come by and get my money. he said he geussed so. i told him he could tell me if he didnt want to see me, he said no he couldnt. i was so confused, he said yesterday that he wanted me to come by tonight. i said i really need my money so i dont have to worry anymore, he said fine i could come. i asked how he was doing with the break, (cause he was acting weird) he said pretty good, you? and i said im fine i do miss you though. he said he missed me too and that i seemed to be enjoying this break cause ive been out everynight. i told him its not like i was getting drunk, just out wtih friends.


then he got super weird. he said that he doesnt feel like were even on a break, and to just keep his cheque (it got printed at work today) cause its his first friday since the break started and he wants to go get drunk with the guys cause he hasnt gone out all week (not my fault) i asked if it was to meet girls, and he said no. and that hed call me after work


what? he has called me everyday, not me. he invited me over to get my money, i didnt ask to come over or hang out. now hes all pissy saying he hasnt gone out yet (im geussing since feels more free or something, though we agreed to not hook up with anyone) and that he doesnt feel like were on a break


should i just not answer his calls? would that shock him into a break? ive been answering and talking to him, but i assumed thats what kind of break he wanted, just talking once a day, not seeing eachother. this all seems so stupid!

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Registered: 10-28-2005
In reply to: stepheb
Fri, 02-01-2008 - 5:02pm

Power games. He was upset that you seemed to be moving on faster and weren't initiating contact so now he has to pull away and talk about "going out with the boys". LOL!

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Registered: 12-09-2007
In reply to: stepheb
Mon, 02-04-2008 - 8:50am
total power games haha. yeah he actually called about an hour later, saying sorry and asking if i could still come by. i did but only for an hour or so (i had made other plans later on) and it was really nice. yeah i think hes realizing that i dont need him as much as he thought, in a good way