A couple of weeks ago I broke up with my boyfriend, I was doing fine until he called Friday. From the message he left I thought he wanted us to talk things over. I called him back later and we talked for awhile. I had to end convo before I we had a chance to talk so I told him I'd call later. I didn't call back that day because he said he was studying and he usually goes to work on Frisay nights. So the next day I called and there was no answer. I called Monday and we talked briefly. I called Tuesday and didn't get him and he called me back. We talked over the relationship for awhile and about how we have communication problems(We have been together a year. We broke up because he failed to call me and let me know he wouldn't be able to make it.) We talked bout maybe getting back together in the future but remaining friends. He also said something about needing a break from me because he feels he has to prove his love. We never finished the converstion.
So he was suppose to come over later that day but I didn't hear from him again. The next day I found out he went to visit his son and got into with his ex and she slashed his tires. Today, we talked and he was suppose to meet me but didn't show up. He told me he was going to be pressed for time because he had to be at work at 12, pick up a friend and talk to his professors. My question is am I being blown off or does it seem he actually has alot of things to take care of. And if I am being blown off why not just say no I don't want to see you? Also if this is how he felt we even contact me in the first place?