Am I doing the right thing #2

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-19-2005
Am I doing the right thing #2
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Thu, 05-19-2005 - 8:29pm

Ok I put a descussion on here earlier called "Am I doing the right thing" Well I have another question. I feel this really need just to tell him how I feel. Like just to get it out of my system. And then maybe it will be easier to get over him and move on. What do you guys think?

Kaity

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-19-2004
Thu, 05-19-2005 - 10:45pm

no, it's not the right thing. you want to tell him how you feel because you think it will somehow make him like you -- and it won't. it will only humiliate you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-20-2004
Fri, 05-20-2005 - 11:26am

hi,

I don't see a problem w/you writing a letter to express your feelings about him or the break-up. When I had finally decided to cut all ties w/my ex, I did the samething and I truly felt good about it afterwards.

So, go ahead and write the letter, you don't even have to send it to him. It will make you feel alot better b/c your finally able to express your true feelings.

Keep us posted.
E.