am i doing the right thing?
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am i doing the right thing?
| Thu, 10-18-2007 - 5:54pm |
lately ive been talking to my mum she said to me ........look at what he's done & still doing now, he hardly comes around or calls doesnt that gives u hints? also she said that beause he knows im "so into him" he will treat me this way because he think he can always come back ,& comes to think of it,it does....i mean he dont support me financially or anything why am i still with him? because i love him so much . dont get me wrong when he cheated on me i didnt get back with him right away i also took him back to give him a sec chance. now here we are again.i mean why am i being hurt & i havent done anything? i dont wanna be trying to figure out why he's doing this. he's acting the fool right now. i think i needs to do whats right for me & leave although it will hurt im so tired of getting hurt in so many other ways. i'll hate to think he has another gf:-( no proof yet

he's acting the fool right now.
again, sorry to sound harsh, but you are acting the fool.
It's really important that this board remain a place where everyone who comes here, regardless of whether we agree with anyone's actions, can find support through a very difficult time. Breakups are never easy, and can lead us to do things we might not otherwise. Also, they help to bring our own weaknesses to light. It's up to each individual whether they want to take advantage of that opportunity to improve themselves or not. In the meantime, our hope is to offer support in a non-judgmental way.
I know everyone is just as exasperated as me for cuteness and hope that she can find her way through the confusion, can hopefully learn from the voices of reason who have gone before through all of this and already know the outcome, but at just having turned 18, there are going to be things she's just going to have to experience for herself.
cuteness, listen to your mom. If people are tearing their hair out over what you're going through, it's because we've gone through it, have seen it, or have felt it all before, and yeah, we know what you're going to face with this boy. It doesn't look good, the odds aren't on your side. I will say this: You don't break easy :)
hugs all.