Am I fallling for his best friend
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Am I fallling for his best friend
| Fri, 09-10-2004 - 11:12am |
I am very confused. My live-in boyfriend of 5 years left a few months ago. He as a commitment phobic. That is besides the point. In the middle of trying to get over him and the heartbreak, I find myself involved with his best friend. His friend is "happily" married. After the break up, the best friend and his wife were extremely supportive and caring. They watched over me. I owe them my life, I could not have made it without them. Suddenly, he and I have started spending alot of time alone, going to the movies and to dinner. He calls me every morning on the way to his job. Our conversations have turned to things that we should not be discussing. He is buying me presents, etc. It is starting to become a relationship, with all those exciting giggly feelings. I know that I am going to get hurt here. But I need this relationship so bad. How can I turn his guy away??? The alternative is to be ALONE. The attention he gives me feels so good, but I know that it is unhealthy. I am so afraid that something is going to happen between us, I don't want to hurt his wife. I told him that if his marriage ends that I can not have a relationship with him. He can not come running to me.
Please help.

I would think the fact that he is your ex's best friend and he is married are 2 huge warning signs! Iw ould stay far away from this one... but that is just my personal advice.
Take care!