Am I misunderstanding?
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| Tue, 12-14-2004 - 1:10pm |
My girlfriend and I were together for a year, we broke up and got back together a week later, then she broke up with me again, and it's been a little over three months since then. My whole story is in "Please Help me understand". Anyways, when we hung out a couple days a week ago, she was touchy with me, she slapped my butt while we were making dinner (like she used to do), she even put a pillow on my chest and laid her head on it while we were watching TV (which she did a couple of times before as well). I was rude to her on the phone because she didn't call me one of the days last week even though she said she expected me to call. When we hung out this last weekend with friends I was distant from her and she noticed. We hung out yesterday, but before that, on Sunday, she asked me why I had been kinda mean to her lately. I said I didn't like how she had acted so affectionate towards me when she doesn't want to be with me. I told her it was messing with my mind, kinda confusing me. She said "slapping your butt was just out of habit." and "well, i still have feelings for you." then a little later in the conversation she said " well, i still have a LOT of feelings for you erik." I've been wondering lately if she's found anyone new, either sex wise or relationship wise. She's told me she doesn't want to be in any relationship, and if she had a boyfriend it would be me. But i'm kinda suspicious that she's having sex with or seeing some other guy. The thing is, her and I talk basically everyday and see each other about 5-6 days a week. My question is: Would you guys keep contact with an ex-boyfriend like she has and still have time on the side for someone else? and my other question is: Are there any hidden messages in her words, or am misunderstanding what she's saying? Thanks very much for any comments you have.
Edited 12/14/2004 1:15 pm ET ET by erik4444
Edited 12/14/2004 3:55 pm ET ET by erik4444
