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Am i right?
| Sun, 08-15-2004 - 8:30pm |
Dated him for couple times 2 years ago - was casual. Then got back together and this time quite serious for 3 months. His ex gf before me cheated with him - I know the story and it hurts to even hear about it. Last weekend he told that he can't be in any romantic relationship right now, as he feels he needs to heal from his terrible experience. He was emotional saying all this and said didn't want to be lonely. I was the more mature one that night and said how much I cared, but I understand where he comes from - although I'd like to be still friends, but being platonic after all this may be hard for both... he hasn't called and I honestly didn't think there was anything to talk about at the moment.
Here's what I'd like to do right now... focus on my needs for the moment (life, job, other relations, etc.) and not ignore my feelings towards him. While I keep myself open to other prospects, I'm not closing the possibility of getting back together with him if and when the timing is right for both. I am hopeful (from the past and knowing the kind of person he is) that somehow it may work out... Do you agree with my approach?
Here's what I'd like to do right now... focus on my needs for the moment (life, job, other relations, etc.) and not ignore my feelings towards him. While I keep myself open to other prospects, I'm not closing the possibility of getting back together with him if and when the timing is right for both. I am hopeful (from the past and knowing the kind of person he is) that somehow it may work out... Do you agree with my approach?
Edited 8/15/2004 8:33 pm ET ET by namu8
Edited 8/15/2004 8:35 pm ET ET by namu8
