Off and on again -i want him back
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Off and on again -i want him back
| Thu, 01-03-2008 - 2:58pm |
Hi all. I'd like some advice on my situation. My ex left about 2 days ago. We have been dating for a little over 3 yrs. For the first 2 years we lived in city A together. I'd say in the span of those 2 years he broke up with me 5 times for about a week and went to his mom's. But he never took all his stuff from our house. He would just take a bunch of clothes and leave. And every time he'd leave. I really thought it was over. But I'd txt him and call and email him begging to come back. After a few days of that he'd always come back. Then we moved to city B, about 2 hours from city A and his mom's house. When we first moved here he did the usual breakup and go to his moms. But he hadnt had a job here yet, so it was easy for him to just leave. And this time he had to drive 2 hrs to get there. He didnt take all his stuff either. Now lets fast forward to 2 days ago. We fought, he took EVERYTHING he owns from the house and went back to city A to stay at his moms. But this time he had to quit the job he had here. This makes things seem really final to me. I dont know what to think. Do you think he'll be back since it is his MO to take off for awhile. We have been best friends for about 10 years and I'm sure absolutely love each other. He gets mad and very impulsive. I want him back. Should I just leave him alone and not call or do the usual beg and plead for him back.
Edited 1/3/2008 3:40 pm ET by marcie1617
Edited 1/3/2008 3:40 pm ET by marcie1617

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Hi Marcie1617
I personally think that you should just give him some time alone. Usually when people have time to think, they reminisce about alot of things, and sometimes that including the one that they once loved, or still love. And if he doesn't come back, possibly consider this a good thing, I k now that you must be tired of the constant breaking up, and him moving in and out.
Good Luck!
I don't think anyone here will ever tell you to beg and plead for anyone to come back into your life.
Well said Sandra!! That post is def a keeper!
Marcie
First I wanted to say thank you for replying to my post.
Hi Sandra,
I don't post a lot on this board, but when I read this advice you just gave I just had to say you are awesome!
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