anniversary

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Registered: 04-28-2007
anniversary
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Fri, 07-13-2007 - 8:13pm
Dear Friends,
So I have been seperated since March and tomorrow would have been our 31st anniversary. So here I sit with my glass of wine, feeling sorry for myself while he will be spending the weekend with his "girlfriend" . I wish I had inner drive to get out there and do something but all I really feel like doing is getting under the covers and hoping when I wake up this has all been a dream. I miss him so much....
So how do we get through all these special anniversaries etcc...
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-22-2006
In reply to: sally882007
Sun, 07-15-2007 - 10:36pm

Hi and welcome,

I'm sorry you've been feeling so lonely and down. That's a long time to have been together, a long road to have traveled. Maybe it just wasn't meant to be that you'd end the journey with the one you started. Is that such a terrible thing?

First, you need a plan, girlfriend. You need to get out from under those covers, out from behind that glass of wine and DO something! Anything, I don't care what it is, but you've got to get some of that blood flowing in your veins again. What? Just because your man is gone means you have no more life in you? Nope. That's a lie and you know it.

And final newsflash: If you're separated and he's already got a girlfriend, then I know you've filed for divorce already, right?

I know you miss the man he used to be, but he's not that man anymore. Now he's a man who would spend his 31st wedding anniv with his girlfriend instead of his wife. Remember that, it ought to piss you off but good, and that'll help get you motivated.

Good luck, and keep posting.

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