another chapter ...

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Registered: 11-09-2004
another chapter ...
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Sat, 11-20-2004 - 7:58am
to our miserable soap opera ~ after going thru my fiances deployment for the last year and having 'issues' that made him mad he has now stopped all communication, like a silent break-up. OOOOOR he knows I put him in prison 10 years ago and is getting back at me ... like we're 5 years old again. And I'm afraid he's gone mental on me and using our break-up for his PTSD issues (which he has from combat) So, needless to say, I haven't had the opportunity to confess I put him in prison 'cause I think he already knows. The old question comes to mind: 'why me???' :/ V
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Registered: 11-09-2004
Sun, 11-21-2004 - 7:48am
<<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>> in the night
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Registered: 01-30-2004
Sun, 11-21-2004 - 10:42am
I know this is hard on you. There could be a logical explanation for why he hasn't contacted you but conisidering his abusive behavior in the past....it's probably for the best. I know it's hard to accept but you'll be ok and you'll make it through this and we're here to help. Just stay busy!!! Good luck and keep us posted!!











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Registered: 11-09-2004
Tue, 11-23-2004 - 7:50am
Thank you Heidi and yes, the military makes communication really tough sometimes for the soldiers ... but it's been too long. The shark has gone under ... I kind of pushed for the break-up 'cause of the "skeletons in our past" and then it happened. But I didn't expect the silence, and part of it could be some major PTSD on his part. We never really connected again 'cause he was deployed and my life is basically the same, single. I've learned some great things from this board tho and appreciate the support and advice :)
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Registered: 01-30-2004
Tue, 11-23-2004 - 11:05pm
I'm glad this board has been benificial to you and you are always welcome here!! I'm sorry that things are ending this way but we're here to help you get through it!! (((Hugs))) Good luck and keep us posted!!











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