Any1 else who has to work with their ex?

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Registered: 07-10-2007
Any1 else who has to work with their ex?
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Thu, 07-12-2007 - 11:53am
I really wish i had never got involved with a guy from work, it just makes the whole break up thing ten times worse! Ive had to call in sick the past couple of days and im terrified of seeing him coz i know im just going to break down infront of everyone and they're all going to know why. And seeing him is going to make the NC impossible..and especially when all i want to do is talk to him all the time and ask him stuff and tell him things and try to make him want me again. When i know im just going to end up embarrassing myself!
Is anyone out there in the same postion? Anyone make the same mistake of a work relationship?
Really need some help on how to cope with this..
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Thu, 07-12-2007 - 12:58pm

Hi tigger1864 and welcome to the board,


Sandra posted this in the resource section, check it out:


Handling Breakups at Work

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Registered: 08-30-2005
Thu, 07-12-2007 - 4:04pm
the only way to deal with situations like these is to act civil....hello goodbye and nothing else....dont ever let him see u upset..i know its very hard to do..but give urself the best try possible...if there is any one female coworker (as long she is on ur side and not a gossip type....let her be ur support system...personally i wont even sh""t where i eat....even at where i live .. i have been asked from two guys in my biilding..one is gorgeous... for my number..........i said...sorry i have a bf...LOL....i live in a building where there are security cameras in the lobby ..in the laundry room...in the elevalator....lol...i dont need someone who spy on me and knock on my door..dont need that kind of dramas..LOL....be strong...i believe u can do it...