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anyone out there tonight?
| Thu, 09-16-2004 - 11:49pm |
Why is this so hard? My bf and I broke up a few nights ago. We were together for nearly 3 years. Although it was mutual (we've been long-distance for a year and it was getting tough), it still hurts SO bad. I'm okay when I'm around other people, but when I'm by myself I can't stop crying. I'm tired of crying, I'm tired of not being able to sleep. It seems like everywhere I go and everything I look at sets off a flood of memories. I've never felt so miserable before. Why can't I just forget about him and be happy? When am I ever going to stop crying?
Sorry, I just needed to talk. Thanks for listening.
Nicole

I'm sorry there was no one here for you last night. I'm usually on late at night but last night I was out with a good friend having fun. The fact that I can have fun only four nights away from a breakup is just amazing to me! You will get there too.
The first few days, and weeks are rough. You were with this person for three years. He was a big part of your life. Give yourself time to mourn and heal. It takes time. You will cry for a while, especially when your alone. Crying can be healing and soothing. The quickest way over the pain is through it. Once you feel the pain completely and realize that it doesn't destroy you then it begins to subside.
Best wishes to you. We are here to help you through this. We're all in the same boat.
Again, thanks to both of you for replying.
Nicole