Argh I'm going to meet him soon!

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Registered: 01-08-2007
Argh I'm going to meet him soon!
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Wed, 01-10-2007 - 5:45am

Hi everyone

Crisis point. Me and my boyfriend split up mutually on Sunday and I haven't been able to get it in my head whether we did the right thing or not. Same for him. So I've made the stupid mistake of arranging to meet him in a couple of hours! I have no idea why or what I'm going to say or anything.

Fool!

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Registered: 08-04-2003
Wed, 01-10-2007 - 11:40am
Are you going to bring up counseling? Let us know how it goes.


Carrie

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Registered: 01-08-2007
Wed, 01-10-2007 - 12:22pm

Hello

It was kind of weird. We talked about whether it would work if we got back together but we both felt we needed a bit more time to be able to decide constructively rather than based on missing each other and stuff.

I did mention counselling but at the same time I know there are issues for myself I have to work on so maybe some time just to digest and reflect is the best idea.

If we don't get back together (which I have no idea if we will or won't) I hope to be friends at some point in the future as it seems a waste of all the good times if we don't.

Seeing him on Friday just to catch up. Goes against all the rules of a succesfull breakup doesn't it? lol. I'm rubbish at this kind of thing!