Avoidance for how long??

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Registered: 09-09-2003
Avoidance for how long??
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Mon, 10-23-2006 - 6:02pm
had a short relationship with this guy. (2 months only) and broke up 2 days ago.
We are a group of 20 friends and we always do activities together like parties, getaways, dinners, ... I know I should be avoiding him for a while. This will mean avoiding all big events with my friends. I will still attend a birthday party of a common friend soon. But dont have plans of how to deal with him. Do I just say hi and avoid him in the party? Do I just treat him like I treat the other friends? We both have feelings for each other but decided to break up because he may be relocating in a few months...
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 10-23-2006 - 6:56pm

juliara2003...

This one's easy....at least for PG.

If there are 20 in the group, you can avoid the EX and concentrate on the other 18! Be courteous, but not conversational towards him. There are at least 17 other people to hang out with and talk to!

Besides...

The LAST THING you want to do is give the EX the impression that you've still got 'a smidgen of interest' in him, right? So go out and enjoy the rest of the group, along with ALL THE FUN STUFF THAT HAS ALREADY BEEN PLANNED!

Pianoguy