Avoiding me/Breaking up w/ me????
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Avoiding me/Breaking up w/ me????
| Mon, 10-08-2007 - 10:40am |
I have been dating a guy for a little over a month now. We talked a few monthe before actually meeting and becoming bf/gf. Well everything has been great with us. He lives about 50 min away from here so I only got to see him on weekends.

Welcome to the board aerdna22006,
Something could have happened.
I almost hate to bring this up....
I can't remember which board it was, but another woman jumped to the same conclusion after a few days of phone silence, that the man she was seeing was ignoring her, etc., etc., and got herself worked up into a frenzy, nearly dumping him before he got a chance to dump her. He'd been in a car accident, recovering in the hospital. Another time, the man's mother had passed away suddenly. These stories come up pretty regularly on the relationship boards.
Not saying any of that is the case with him, I certainly hope not, but it's kind of shocking that instead of thinking something could have happened to him, you think he's silently breaking up with you. That speaks volumes about your self-esteem or about your faith in the relationship and how it's going, actually. Especially given the fact that it's only been around 48 hours since you last had contact with him. Do you *really* need daily contact? Come on now. Work on that while you wait for him to get in contact with you. Give him a week, then call him again.
Good luck,