Back at square one............
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Back at square one............
| Mon, 03-24-2008 - 12:46pm |
I took my daughter to my Mom's this weekend to spend Spring Break up there.
| Mon, 03-24-2008 - 12:46pm |
I took my daughter to my Mom's this weekend to spend Spring Break up there.
You're trying to be "friends" with him and it's too soon for that.
all i can say, isn't this the guy who basically controls your daughter to the point of telling her she looks frumpy or ugly w/ her hair like that?
You're right............ I just remembered I have plans tonight............with myself, a pilates dvd and a glass of wine (maybe 2)
It's sad, I guess..... It would be easier if I hated him, but I haven't felt the hate part in awhile so I guess I'm not right back where I started?
Why can't he just talk to me about our daughter and not ask how I'm doing etc........ Does he ask because
That's the wrong question to ask.
Sheri's point is very valid, but when I've been in states like yourself, what helps me to realize is "who is more important? You or him? You, right?! The tricky thing when we're breaking up is looking for more meaning than is there. I still have to stop myself w/ my ex when he says he misses me or wishes I were there.
Well,
Yes, people can change but it takes a LOT of hard work and I think most people who try to change don't succeed because it's too hard and takes too long.
Is he willing to go to counseling?