Bad idea?

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Registered: 10-20-2006
Bad idea?
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Wed, 10-25-2006 - 8:13am
Ok someone talk me out of this if it's a terrible idea! I saw this shirt the other day that I know my ex would love. He would find it hilarious and it's something only I would know that he would find that funny. I want to get it and send it to him as a joke for Halloween. Is it a horrible idea? I wouldn't be too upset if he didn't acknowledge it, just knowing how funny he would find it would be worth it.
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Registered: 08-04-2003
In reply to: alwayshope1019
Wed, 10-25-2006 - 8:59am

How long have you been broken up? Are you on friendly terms?

Usually not a good idea to start buying gifts for an ex after a break-up even as a joke gift.


Carrie

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Registered: 10-16-2006
In reply to: alwayshope1019
Wed, 10-25-2006 - 2:13pm

Its a pretty bad idea yes.


I would seriously wait for him to initiate the next contact. I know its hard but worth it. When someone contacts you it makes you feel wanted right? Remember that feeling? I've been on the receiving end of too much or unwanted attention many times and I want to tell you how it feels: First mildly annoyed, then guilty, then finally repulsed and by that I don't mean the repulsion that makes you nauseous but more like the other end of a magnet. I just don't want to call that person and the more they call the more I don't want to call. Combine all of this with the stress of knowing that

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