Bday card?
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| Mon, 07-09-2007 - 8:34am |
I've written on here a couple of times. Bf of 8 mos and I broke up a little over 2 months ago. We have stayed in contact (email/call/text)--working on a friendship of sorts. I recently began dating someone else, but truth be told, am not over my last relationship so I'm finding it hard to move forward in the new one.
Last Saturday was my bday and I received a card from him along with a small gift he had picked up a long time ago (prior to breakup) that he still "wanted me to have." His bday is coming up next weekend and I'm wondering if I should return the favor? I also have a little something I picked up a long time ago, to save until his bday, and was thinking of sending it along with a little card. Thoughts?
I've just been missing him a lot recently (which i know is normal). I just thought that it would all go away like my past breakups...but for whatever reason, I can't get him out of my head...even with the new guy. Any advice would be much appreciated!

I would send the card and gift to be polite and reciprocate, but then you need to STOP having contact with him. It's too soon to be friends--you need to get over him first, and that takes at least a few months of no contact.
Sheri