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beak up turning bad
| Tue, 03-06-2007 - 9:30pm |
Hi all! well here's my issue. my boyfriend and i recently broke up about 1 1/2 weeks ago. i realize that i was unhappy alot because with the circumstances it felt as though we weren't in a real relationship and he wouldn't try as hard as i did. so that, of the break up, night i went to see him to basically talk things out and say that i wanted to really make this work. he seemed to agree and then a litte bit later he said that there was one issue: his family was against our relationship b-cuz we are from two different cultures. i told him that i didn't want to get in the way of his family so we parted ways that night. i tried to be "just friends" by e-mailing him just to say hi (1 time though! lol. later on during the week i see this new girl entering his life. i asked him about it when i saw him and he said that " he had to move on". i am conpletely dumbfounded because this was only 4 days after we broke up. he never told me that he didn't love me anymore, so i figured that he would atleast still feel a little hurt,but apparently not. i am upset with him and he knows it. i remember seeing that he was talking to this new girl before we broke up, so i feel like he dumped me to be with her.
we haven't spoken at all but from what i hear he may be into this girl. my friend says that he is probably doing this out of spite because i am not talking to him at all. i wish there was a way to find out how he feels, since he obviously won't even try to contact me.
we haven't spoken at all but from what i hear he may be into this girl. my friend says that he is probably doing this out of spite because i am not talking to him at all. i wish there was a way to find out how he feels, since he obviously won't even try to contact me.

Hi ethiepooh,
I'm not sure I understand why you want to know this: "i wish there was a way to find out how he feels"
::so i figured that he would atleast still feel a little hurt,but apparently not.
This does NOT meant that he doesn't have feelings, doesn't think about you, isn't hurt, this means his way of coping is to jump into a new relationship.
:i remember seeing that he was talking to this new girl before we broke up, so i feel like he dumped me to be with her.
Maybe he did and used his family and culture as an excuse.