Been Thinking...I know its bad!

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Registered: 03-28-2006
Been Thinking...I know its bad!
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Sat, 11-03-2007 - 8:13am

Ive been processing alot of whats happend between him and I think thats important to do just to avoid making the same mistakes again.

 

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Registered: 03-28-2006
Mon, 11-05-2007 - 4:33pm

Sandra,


I suppose its the bad days that bring out the need to think.

 

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Registered: 08-02-2007
Mon, 11-05-2007 - 5:48pm

Ladydeb, that sounds like a great idea and when i think about my situation it feels so much like yours.

Hugs,

 

Dbest

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Registered: 06-22-2006
Mon, 11-05-2007 - 9:03pm

Sounds like you're in the *perfect* frame of mind for a particular book:

Make Every Man Want You (or Make Yours Want You More): How to be so damn irresistible you'll barely keep from dating yourself! by Marie Forleo. Go a Google of her name or look it up on Amazon, but I'd suggest her site.

It usually takes getting over that initial hump of shock, disbelief, and the seemingly-endless agonizing chaotic cycle of whys, before one can actually absorb the goodness in this book. Because it's going to be a radical shift in your thinking. But from your post I think you're ready to go, sistah!

Get the book, you'll thank me later. ;-)

Hugs, and you're pretty great too! Thanks for adding your help, insight and input to the board!

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Registered: 03-28-2006
Tue, 11-06-2007 - 5:57am

dbest,


Thanks for your encouragement! You and I are in similar situations, I could relate to this:


when i started asking questions and making demands is when he started pulling back and acting stranger.

 

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Registered: 08-02-2007
Tue, 11-06-2007 - 10:31am

Ladydeb, I already know in my mind that im better off without him, but my heart has to catch up.

Hugs,

 

Dbest

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