Is being used the worst feeling? (if you read this you deserve a medal!)

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Registered: 06-23-2011
Is being used the worst feeling? (if you read this you deserve a medal!)
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Thu, 06-23-2011 - 8:27am
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Registered: 06-23-2011
I wrote this, and I dont know how to delete it......?????!! it seems so pathetic...even to me!
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Registered: 12-22-2007

bigdayout, he didn't use you.

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Registered: 06-23-2011

I'm not denying how I've treated him. Surprisingly, I have left a lot out. Yeah I know I told him some nasty things, and hence why I let it go. That wasnt really an issue, it was just one of many.. My issue is more how he keeps telling me he wants me in his life and saying he loves me. If he wants to move on, then do it, but dont keep running back to me and saying things I don't think he actually means.

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Registered: 07-04-2006
If you don't want to hear it, then don't listen. You don't have to answer his calls, listen to his messages, or read his texts. You don't have to have him as a FB friend or read his e-mails.

My ex tells me every chance he gets that I should call him "anytime" and that he'd love for us to talk and to maybe even hang out sometimes. I don't believe him and don't want him, so I just plain don't talk to him! I went almost 2 years without talking to him, then circumstances caused us to talk, and he tried to pull the same "let's talk" BS, so I stopped the contact.

You don't have to hear or read anything you don't want to, so just put a stop to it.