BOYFRIEND BROKE UP WITH ME
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BOYFRIEND BROKE UP WITH ME
| Thu, 11-09-2006 - 2:19am |
MY BOYFRIEND OF 6 YEARS JUST BROKE UP WITH ME A LITTLE OVER 2 WEEKS AGO. WE HAVE 2 KIDS TOGETHER. I LIED TO HIM AND TOLD HIM I WAS "SEEING" SOMEONE. JUST TO SEE WHAT HIS REACTION WOULD BE. HE SEEMED PISSED. HE NOW HAS A NEW GIRLFRIEND ALREADY AND IT HURTS SO BAD. HE FLAUNTED HER IN FRONT OF ME TODAY ON PURPOSE. WHY???? PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME I AM GOING CRAZY. I STILL LOVE HIM SO MUCH!!!

i'm so sorry to hear this...why dont you just admit it to him that your just making him jealous...beside it seems that you start that fire so your the one whos responsible to fix everything...atleast for the sake of your children. before its too late.
dont worry if you admit this to him and show the truth...everything will be oky...that girl his just using her to make you jealous for making up story.
good luck
I think at this point, if your ex is happy being single and partying then let him be and YOU need to concentrate on YOU and your children. Take it from a single mom, you and your ex will always have a relationship together and that is going to be a co-parenting relationship. If you two can't make your relationship work, then you two have to make a co-parenting relationship work. At least sit him down and go over how you two are planning to raise your children together now that you two are broke up. Your children are your #1 priorty right now and you need to make sure they are raised in an environment where they feel safe and loved. I really do feel your pain because I was in your shoes almost 5 months ago but you need to stay strong and HONEST with yourself and other people around you for your children's sake and for your emotional state.
You need to accept the fact that your emotional and physical relationship is over with your ex and work on a co-parenting relationship him. Your children are guaranteed love, men are not.
Good luck!