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Boyfriend broke up with me
| Tue, 09-07-2004 - 7:28pm |
My boyfriend broke up with me last Thursday and I can't seem to stop crying. All he said was he didn't think it was going to work out and needed some time. His friend called me today and said he gave him my house key and the cell phone I bought for him to give back to me. I called him, he is supposed to call me back tonight. I want to try and talk him out of this, I love him so much and he told me he loves me too, why isn't that enough to try and make this relationship work. It was great, we would do everything together and had so much fun, this is such a shock to me. Any advice would be appreciated.

If he wants things to change, then he will come around. I know it is so hard to accept that... but you have to think of yourself. I used to keep setting myself up for situations where I would just get hurt again. Its not worth it. If it was meant to be, then it will be... but you cannot press the issue. Give it some time. You need time to deal with your pain. He needs some time to see if he misses you... he won't miss you if you are always calling him.
Keep yourself busy doing things that make you happy. I know you are going through a hard time, but stay strong. I think almost everyone here would agree that No Contact really does work best.
Best of luck to you!