braking up after 9 years
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braking up after 9 years
| Sat, 11-13-2004 - 12:48pm |
Hi,
I need some help. I do not know what to do since my partner wants to leave me and after 9 years of a relationship living together I do not think I can leave her. What can I do. This is too hard. I think I could never be without her. She is all my social contact for many years. I am constantly thinking that she tells me to find someone that loves me. I feel very lonely and do not think I can go through a break up like this. I wish this could be simpler and easier but it is too hard for me. I am obsessibly thinking that she will leave me and do not know what to do. It is so sad and do not think I can go through this.

You will find a way to get on with your life. you can do it.
consider going to counseling. its a good way to get out your feelings.
try to spend time with other people...from work or friends, or family.
it doesnt seem like it now, but things will get better over time.