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| Mon, 11-05-2007 - 10:37am |
I want to break up with my man of 9 months, i know it may seem like we haven't been together long. He is not faithful to me and I want to end the relationship.

you need to go somewhere that he wouldnt expect in the least, you need to hide for a night where he cannot find you. whether it is a girlfriends house that he doesnt know of, or even a hotel in another town. But you need to get away, and fast.
this man is controlling and dangerous. he is a ticking time-bomb.
when you get to your "safe-place" you need to call him from a blocked number on the phone and tell him to leave your house by noon the next day or you will have the police remove him. you need to explain the situation to the police.
whenever someone makes a threat like this bad enough to send you to a board asking about it, then YES you should always take it seriously. life is too short to make stupid mistakes like that.
i applaud you for knowing well enough to get out of the relationship. i also understand that the why is sometimes easier than the "how".
there are too many women who dont get out, and the media is littered with news of their tragic stories. PLEASE get somewhere safe, and update us.
I will be checking back to make sure youre safe.
"when you get to your "safe-place" you need to call him from a blocked number on the phone and tell him to leave your house by noon the next day or you will have the police remove him. you need to explain the situation to the police"
I don't know if i would do this...he may burn the house or do something that can't be found by visible eyes...i would call the police on my way home or when i know he is there and let them escort him out and then leave with the cops and put a restraining order on him. The advise about going somewhere he doesn't expect is good.
Hugs,
Dbest
Welcome to the board moemoe23,
Yeah, to be on the safe side, I'd take his threats seriously.