The "BREAK"

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Registered: 07-21-2007
The "BREAK"
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Mon, 07-23-2007 - 12:15pm

Could a break just be an easy way out for him to let me down easily and prepare me for a full blown break up...?

He has mentioned he feels guilty for asking for a break and breaking my heart. I was the one that initiated the talk that led to our "break" and later I asked if I hadn't said anything, would he still have told me his feelings? And he said that he had been thinking about it for a while and just didn't want to hurt me. It doesn't seem like he is hurt at all...

I also feel really bad because in a rare phone conversation a couple weeks ago I called him a loser or something like that out of rage and although he said he would call me in a week or two, he hasn't yet. Why is this so hard?

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 07-23-2007 - 1:25pm

Hi justgo2007,


::Could a break just be an easy way out for him to let me down easily and prepare me for a full blown break up...?


Yes, it sometimes happens that way.... other times not, consider this:


When he asks for space (aka, "a break")