on break

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Registered: 06-27-2007
on break
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Wed, 06-27-2007 - 4:59pm
My boyfriend and I decided to take a break ( two days ago) after dating for two and half years. Things have been great but the last few months all we did was fight and I guess we both hurt eachother and knew that we needed to take sometime. So why do I feel so crappy, I miss him already, feel all the common signs, ( can't sleep, think, eat, etc) and whats worse is that a part of me feels that this isn't temporary but a permamnt break. I am sad that things got to this point, that there wasn't anything I could do make it better or not let it get out of hand. I also know it wasn't only my responsibily but still I wish things hadn't gotten to this point. I am trying to keep my mind busy but its really not easy, is it.. I just feel terrible and hurt...
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Registered: 06-22-2006
In reply to: alybud24
Tue, 07-03-2007 - 3:07pm

I know breaks can be a very confusing time, but they really don't have to be the end of the world.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: alybud24
Tue, 07-03-2007 - 3:13pm

I wish I had something constructive to add, but at the moment, I'm feeling much the same way. Just keep reading what Sandra writes. She helps. And if it's any consolation, you are not alone.

Hugs.

Michelle

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Registered: 06-27-2007
In reply to: alybud24
Tue, 07-03-2007 - 6:14pm
Thank you so much for your kind and helpful words.. I went to Mexico city for the a few days to visit a dear friend and truly felt a black cloud leave my soul.. I had such a wonderful time but also noticed that I really do care about this man and that yes there are certain things I needed to do to fix them. I came home last night and just had such a nice talk with him and felt that it also did him good that I left for a few days.. Its a start, we both want to work things out, both know we need to fix certain things and both know we want to be with eachohther.. I want to take it day by day but i feel quite good..I will however read the book you suggested... Thank you so much...
as they say in spanish un abrazo.. a hug...