break up with child

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-25-2005
break up with child
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Sun, 12-25-2005 - 5:11pm
recently i left my sons father; we lived in the same town, same apartment, etc. we both have insecurity issues towards each other, which drove me nuts. we have a 4 yr old son who loves us dearly and doesn't want us seperated, but i thought the best thing to do was to move on. our emotions are deep for our son. what can i do? i also would like to move on with my life, but his father wants to work this out. i can't take it anymore. how can i let him know its over? but will always be there for our son. (we've talked about shared custody already) please help
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Registered: 08-04-2003
Mon, 12-26-2005 - 1:01am

You will have to re-state yourself over and over again for him to hear you and believe you.

If you both put your child first, you will work together for a shared custody plan that can work.


Carrie