in a break he came back to his ex

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Registered: 01-05-2004
in a break he came back to his ex
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Fri, 04-22-2005 - 9:24pm

I was wondering if someone was in a similar situation. We are both in school and it's the end of the semester and with so many exams, papers and everything else it's very hard to be sain. So, I had nervous breakdowns and I couldn't maintain healthy relationship - I was always upset that I can't spend much time with my b/f. We've been together for 7 months and saw each other every day. I met his parents, stayed at his parents home for holidays,,, so on. So, when I had a nervous breakdown because of my studies, I asked him that we should probably take some time off until the end of the semester, since the time is crazy and he said yes... Well, as soon as it happened, I learned that the next day he came back to his ex (that he dated for 6 months before me) And we not young. He is actually in his 40s. I am in my early 30s.- He never told me anything and I suppose that he still doesn't know that I know. But it suddenly hurts like hell. Did anyone else was in a situation when in a break, or right after a break-up the b/f came back to his ex. Did it ever had a succesful relationship with his ex? I can't really process this info.

Thanks

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Registered: 01-30-2004
Mon, 04-25-2005 - 10:44pm
I've never personally been in your situation but there have been several people on the board that have been.
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