Break up problem

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Registered: 11-29-2004
Break up problem
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Wed, 06-21-2006 - 9:22am

All right so I've been dating my Bf for 2 years now, and last night I broke up with him. All he did was cry, I felt like such a b*tch. So I told him that it was only temporarily, and I was sure that we would be back together soon enough. But that wasn't my intention. I just said it to make him feel better. But now I don’t know if that was the right thing to do, because he has called me 6 times in 24 hours just to tell me that he loves me.

I'm so confused. I know that I don't want to be with him because I just started college. I want to be alone, and able to have fun with my friends. I love him I do but why do I feel like I’m completely over it and it was the right thing to do, and then he���s like going to go off the deep end. Help me I need some advice on why I feel this way and what I should tell him.

Thanks allot, it's greatly appreciated.

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Registered: 05-15-2006
Wed, 06-21-2006 - 11:34am
You have your reasons for breaking up with him. Don't let him guilt you back into the relationship. You'll only end up feeling resentful toward him. All you will be doing is prolonging the inevitable....Sooner or later he'll just have to deal with the break up. It's still fresh, give it a couple of days. Don't change your mind because of the way he's acting or the things that he's saying. Good Luck!
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Registered: 01-12-2005
Wed, 06-21-2006 - 1:00pm

I'm sorry it was such a difficult scene last night.

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Registered: 06-16-2006
Wed, 06-21-2006 - 1:10pm

hi ambern2005

well tell him that you dont want to be unfair to him thats why your doing this. i mean he has the right to find someone to be with that will love/like his equal. so just tell him your intention. BE HONEST TO HIM

GOOD LUCK