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| Thu, 07-14-2005 - 4:56pm |
why does a guy end a relationship by not returning calls and overall avoidance?
I've been with this guy for 6 months and he just walked away without a word.
I called once and left a message asking what was up, no response from him.
I emailed once asking the same thing, no response again.
What in the world is this? This has never happened to me before and I'm
really confused and angry. We didn't argue and even have a trip to Vegas planned
for this weekend, plane tickets and all!
We haven't spoken in 2 weeks.
Any advice or input is greatly appreciated.

IF you have money vested in the trip, get it back.
If it's not your money, don't worry about it.
Don't contact him again.
write him off and mean it.
you certainly deserve better, don't you think?
all the more reason to let it go.
Wow I'm sorry... if he is trying to break it off, it is definitely cowardly for sure, but is there a way you can see him just by chance something isn't deathly wrong?? I mean to not cancel such a big trip seems odd? You deserve some kind of answer I think, and if he's not bedridden or something, then kick your heels up and sashay away from this jerk. Good Luck!!
Grace
To me it sounds like he is a coward like everyone else is saying, and I am so sorry that you have to deal with this. My boyfriend just broke up with me, and though he did it to my face (But I was going to visit family that following weekend and it would have not surprised me if he waited until then and did it over the phone. I brought up if he wanted to break up with me or not), most guys are just cowards when it comes to breakups, they don't like seeing girls cry and they are ashamed of themselves. You deserve so much better. BUT. About the trip. Is their any way you can go with one of your girlfriends? The tickets are all ready paid for arn't they? I think its' like $100 to change a tickets name. It might be good to get away. After my boyfriend broke up with me, my dad and I went to Disneyland, totaly got my mind off things. I know it will be hard to every understand why he did this to you, and what made him breakup with you, but you have to try and do your best to tell yourself you deserve better and it his his loss. Best of luck to you in finding the answers. If you need to talk, I'll be on the board a while. TTYS
-Katie