Breaking up

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Registered: 01-08-2005
Breaking up
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Sun, 01-09-2005 - 12:07pm
My bf of nearly 2 years broke up with me about a weeks ago. Yesterday we had to meet to exchange some stuff that we had of each other. The meeting was actually the first time we really talked about the break up because he told me that before through a text message (we were in different countries at that time). Before the meeting I thought that I would be OK. But when I met him and talked, we both cried but he was so firm about his decision. He told me that he still had feelings for me but he was tired of the relationships. I don't know what to do now. I still care deeply about him. I really want to call him but he doesn't seem to want to talk to me. He told me that he would call me back last night but he didn't. I am so lost now. Why does he have to to break up with me if he still has feelings for me? And what worse, this 14 Jan will be our 2 years of being together. How can I live through that day? I really want him back. Will that miracle happen...
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Registered: 04-08-2003
In reply to: imlp
Sun, 01-09-2005 - 7:41pm

I know you will be okay - simply because I was when my fiance broke up with me!

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Registered: 01-08-2005
In reply to: imlp
Mon, 01-10-2005 - 3:04am

Thank you so much for your reply. This morning I dwelt on my feelings for him again, but after reading your post, I felt better. I should really think about myself now. There are things that I wanted to do but I had to put on hold because of him. Now I can have all the time for myself so I can do whatever I want. I will try my best not to contact him. I know it's the best way...it's just that it's much easier said than done. Anyway, thank you very much. It felt good to have someone share the experience with me.