Breaking up gently......

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Registered: 09-14-2007
Breaking up gently......
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Fri, 09-21-2007 - 8:31am
I've been out a few times with this guy who is cute, sweet, funny and does everything right, but I'm just not


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Registered: 02-05-2007
Fri, 09-21-2007 - 3:58pm

Welcome to the board skip-to-my-lou,


Love the graphic in your siggy line.....


Well, I think if all of us had the choice we would want to be broken-up with gently and/or to be able to break up with the other person gently....


If someone has the formula on how to do that, I hope they post it.


iVillage Member
Registered: 05-15-2006
Fri, 09-21-2007 - 4:36pm
Just tell him..... gently. Tell him that you think he is sweet, handsome but you really like him as a friend. If you don't tell him and he likes you that way, you'll be leading him on. Let
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-14-2007
Tue, 09-25-2007 - 8:12am
Thanks for the advice. I still haven't "officially" told him yet but I've conveniently had plans for the past week.


iVillage Member
Registered: 07-14-2007
Tue, 09-25-2007 - 10:18am

I guess, the usual advice

Be firm, don't go too much into how great he is (because it'll give him too much hope), do it in person, have a back up 'outing' in case it drags on and leave him alone afterwards.

Susanna

- There comes a point in your life when you realize who matters, who never did, who won't anymore, and who always will. So don't worry about people from your
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Registered: 02-19-2003
Wed, 09-26-2007 - 8:21am

Great advice!