breaking up? how do you do it?

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Registered: 06-04-2007
breaking up? how do you do it?
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Wed, 10-10-2007 - 1:29pm

Breaking up.. it is such a life changing event.
How do I keep thing the way they are?

I want to break up with my bf, It is not that I don't love him. I love him. It is not that he is bad. He is a sweetie. I just don't know why I feel the need to break up with him in the back of my head.

He was my first love, my first.., my first long-term relationship. We'd been together for almost 2 yr. There are just little thing sometime bug me and It wasn't that important to me before.

I feel like a different person but he is not the one who try to change me. I don't want to hurt him. I don't want to lose him, I don't want to lose me either. I know I am changing I think it is for better. When I imagine my future, It used to be me and him. Now when I imagine my future, the thought of me and him kinda disgust me.

Why do I feel this way? He didn't do anything wrong.

I guess, I don't really have a question. I am just venting and Has anyone been in the same position as I am?

ukia.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 10-10-2007 - 2:17pm

Welcome to the board ukia,


I think what you feel is normal at your age and where you are in life.

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Registered: 06-04-2007
Wed, 10-10-2007 - 11:30pm

thank you. I already busy enough with school and work and friends. So is he. :( maybe we just need more time together. I am just confused. I don't want to string him along but I want him in my life.

What should I do?...

Thank you again Carrie,

ukia