Breaking up, it's for the best
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Breaking up, it's for the best
| Fri, 12-28-2007 - 5:22pm |
Hello, I haven't post much, mostly been lurking and reading your posts, trying to get courage and learn from your situations.

Take the final step and break it off ....Dear girl, you stayed in a bad relationship for who knows how long and have discovered many things, have suspected many things, have allowed disrespect and abuse. See, what's wrong with you?
No, there's nothing wrong with you. We don't want to think of ourselves as capable of loving that which we also despise. Like any human being who has loved someone, you want to believe the good rather than the bad. Thing is, the bad is just as real if not more so as whatever good there might have been in him.
You may want to look at the Toxic Relationships board in order to get some additional support in dealing with getting over someone who is inherently bad for you. And he is bad for you. Being an adult, you have a responsibility to yourself to look out for you. That includes disentangling yourself from him so you can lead a life that will truly make you happy.
Best,