breaking up for no special reason...
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breaking up for no special reason...
| Mon, 05-09-2005 - 10:38am |
I need help on this, because it makes feel so bad !
I've been going out with this guy for a month now, and he's really perfect, treating me like I would have never dreamed of being treated, trying everything to make me happy. I really do care a lot about him, but I realized now that my feelings won't go any further than this. I see him more as a big brother (he's older and very protective) than a boyfriend or lover.
So the best thing would be to tell him the truth so i won't make him waste his time, but i feel like a complete bitch by wanting to leave him despite all of his efforts!
He doesn't suspect anything, he sees us as the perfect couple so I don't know how to land this big bomb on him.
On top of that i was the one who flirted with him first, i always saw him around college and was curious about him. So i feel like i initiated this whole thing and feel so guilty now that i want to end it.
what should i do ? what's the "best" way to break up with him ?
I've been going out with this guy for a month now, and he's really perfect, treating me like I would have never dreamed of being treated, trying everything to make me happy. I really do care a lot about him, but I realized now that my feelings won't go any further than this. I see him more as a big brother (he's older and very protective) than a boyfriend or lover.
So the best thing would be to tell him the truth so i won't make him waste his time, but i feel like a complete bitch by wanting to leave him despite all of his efforts!
He doesn't suspect anything, he sees us as the perfect couple so I don't know how to land this big bomb on him.
On top of that i was the one who flirted with him first, i always saw him around college and was curious about him. So i feel like i initiated this whole thing and feel so guilty now that i want to end it.
what should i do ? what's the "best" way to break up with him ?
