Breaking up-pregnant

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Registered: 04-23-2007
Breaking up-pregnant
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Fri, 11-02-2007 - 10:21am
My ex-boyfriend and I have been off and on since February,07- After a few months together, his ex-wife went psycho and started calling me excessivly, following us, literally driving us crazy, eventually we broke up, we each have children involved, and it was just too much drama, although we were already in love, after a month, I was getting better adn he started calling me again,it was almost like we could not stay away from each other, over the Summer, we were both extremly busy with our jobs and children and he was very anti-committment, it wasn't like there was time for that any way. However, I became pregnant- He was adament about an abortion and I was not sure, however due to the timing and the circumstances surrounding our lives, I chose to agree to the abortion, when I arrived there, they did several tests and told me I was not pregnant, however, when I arrived home, I discovered I was indeed still pregnant, after a couple more weeksof thinking, I did not reschedule the abortion and told him I was keeping the child, he immediatly started arguements and threatening me, for about three weeks, however, I immediatly turned it around on him and told several people about his attitude, he then confessed to a mutual friend that he was scared and stresssed out about the situation, that he knew he should be there but he was scared of what was going to happen. He started calling me and I wouldn't talk to him for fear of arguing over the situation and the one time i did, he went off yelling after that I was furious and continued not to talk to him. Three weeks ago, we actually had a civil conversation for a few minutes but we were not in a position to have a lengthy conversation, I haven't talked to him in three weeks, however through our mutual friend he does know we are having a girl. The whole thing stresses me out and I am most fearful that he will start a relationship with someone else, I am not sleeping well and I think about him all the time. I still love him, but I am not sure we can repair this, I am not even sure he still loves me
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Fri, 11-02-2007 - 1:06pm

Welcome to the board goddess_erin29,


Congrats on your baby girl!


He is showing you who he is at the very core of his being.