a breakup is at least better than...??
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| Mon, 05-16-2005 - 5:03am |
even though its late tonight - i found myself cruising through the net and soon found myself going through a bunch of different ivillage message boards...
upon checking out "surviving a divorce," - i couldnt help but think...
maybe our breakups arent SO bad??? i mean - what if we were actually MARRIED to our ex's...then, not only would be dealing with having to part ways - but there would be a multitude of other difficult factors to deal with ... such as finances, legalaties, etc etc...
and in retrospect - if it wasnt "meant to be" - then its better that we broke up NOW with our partners than later on down the road when knots are tied and it becomes THAT much more complicated...
i am, by no means, mocking divorces or undermining the "intensity" of our breakups... but really, ... isnt a breakup better than a divorce? can we be grateful for that atleast??
just rambling from me!
eeksj :)
| Mon, 05-16-2005 - 8:16pm |
| Mon, 05-16-2005 - 11:05pm |
