Broke up but he wants me to call....

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Registered: 01-16-2004
Broke up but he wants me to call....
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Mon, 01-07-2008 - 8:22am
Because of serious circumstances with his STBX, my bf
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Registered: 07-14-2007
Mon, 01-07-2008 - 7:47pm

This will be short, because I have to run, but it's not meant to be curt!

Personally, I'd ask him just to drop your stuff over on your porch. A period of healing is in order, no matter how amicable the breakup or what a nice guy your ex is. And healing is sped up by no contact.

Secondly, I am skeptical of the gut feeling. I find that, personally, it's hard to distinguish between the gut feeling and wishful thinking. And wishful thinking is a dangerous thing.

all the best


- There comes a point in your life when you realize who matters, who never did, who won't anymore, and who always will. So don't worry about people from your past - there's a reason they didn't make it into your future.
- There comes a point in your life when you realize who matters, who never did, who won't anymore, and who always will. So don't worry about people from your
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Registered: 06-02-2003
Mon, 01-07-2008 - 7:54pm

go with your gut.....if you don't feel comfortable 100% meeting with him face to face just yet then don't.

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Registered: 01-16-2004
Tue, 01-08-2008 - 1:03pm

I couldn't agree with you more.

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Registered: 01-16-2004
Tue, 01-08-2008 - 1:36pm

The knickknacks were not important.